Hope
Long time back, one of my friends was very upset over something...highly depressed I must say....and this is what he wrote to me in one of his mails while telling me his problems.
"Zakhm kuch aise hain phoolon par soya naa gaya
jism jala aur aankhon se roya tak na gaya"
Good lines, but very depressing...so this is what I had replied then to cheer him up a bit..
"Mano to phulon par sone se bhi chot lag jati hai..
na mano to kanton se bhi kuch nahi hota
jism ke jalne pe aansoon kya bahana
zindadil to woh hai jo rooh jalne pe bhi nahi rota..."
I dunno why I'm posting this here today, but some incident reminded me of hese lines, and I was just wondering how pain and depression is all a matter of perception and acknowledgement of pain.
I guess we really do choose what to make of our life, because the all imp. thing is only our attitude. If we learn to be optimistic, if we learn to let go, if we learn to take evrything that life offers in our stride..life would be so much better indeed.
I know it's easier said than done what I "preach", but then....if we are willing to try to be happy, that could be a start itself....Give it a thought.
"Zakhm kuch aise hain phoolon par soya naa gaya
jism jala aur aankhon se roya tak na gaya"
Good lines, but very depressing...so this is what I had replied then to cheer him up a bit..
"Mano to phulon par sone se bhi chot lag jati hai..
na mano to kanton se bhi kuch nahi hota
jism ke jalne pe aansoon kya bahana
zindadil to woh hai jo rooh jalne pe bhi nahi rota..."
I dunno why I'm posting this here today, but some incident reminded me of hese lines, and I was just wondering how pain and depression is all a matter of perception and acknowledgement of pain.
I guess we really do choose what to make of our life, because the all imp. thing is only our attitude. If we learn to be optimistic, if we learn to let go, if we learn to take evrything that life offers in our stride..life would be so much better indeed.
I know it's easier said than done what I "preach", but then....if we are willing to try to be happy, that could be a start itself....Give it a thought.
7 Comments:
At Thursday, April 07, 2005 5:43:00 PM, Phoenix said…
yeah ted, but at some point, moving on is important too....
|and banner, i guess u need to learn from that line the most that
zindadil to woh hai jo rooh jalne pe bhi nahi rota...
it aint too good to be such a pessimist
At Friday, April 08, 2005 9:17:00 AM, night in shining armour said…
@envisager (not banner, who seems to be hogging this post! no offence ;-) )
|good thought, infact right thought...
I can assure you it works!
At Friday, April 08, 2005 12:19:00 PM, Anonymous said…
i think optimism can be justified either way....moving on or holding on.
|At Friday, April 08, 2005 1:20:00 PM, Phoenix said…
thank you bachi, and others...
|banner, i cant tell you what it felt readin those lines u've written, and probably i cant ever make u understand either...
it was almost as if pain emanated from the screen....
i really want to talk to u in person now..can i add u at orkut?
At Monday, April 11, 2005 6:48:00 PM, kAy said…
i just read the last three poems you wrote.
|am very impressed-
i havent read much poetry except my grandfathers,he's a poet too. so poetry is in my blood,therefore if i give you a compliment it should be taken seriously ;)
i love the answer u gave ure friend.
what i want to know is..what he said AFTER that
haha
At Monday, April 11, 2005 7:15:00 PM, Phoenix said…
thanx Kay...
|that was overwhelming...
well the answer i gave was more of a sponty, though i managed to convey what i intended to...
He got my point too, but he's a perennial cribber...though at that time he simply said...
kash mujhe bhi gamon ke beech yoon khushion ko dhoondna ata...
and ever since i've been tryin to teach him just that!
At Thursday, April 14, 2005 2:22:00 AM, Anonymous said…
Wonderful, Kiddo [:)]
|(somehow, I liked ur friend's lines more:
"Zakhm kuch aise hain phoolon par soya naa gaya
jism jala aur aankhon se roya tak na gaya")
~ Time [8)]
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