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Wednesday, February 23, 2005

Love and..er...logic?

One interesting question I myself have very confused thoughts on..so i thought i'll write it down..maybe that'll get some coherence in....

I was wondering if love and logic(as in reasoning, or rationality, call it what u like) can co-exist? Are they related?Can they be related?
Is love actually blind?
With no room for thinking, reasoning, and planning...of the kind that we do for other serious issues like career, and life?
We all want to have control over our life...as i said in the previous post...
We all wanna be sure we are doing the right kind of things, making the right decisions,especially those decisions that we know influence our life in a big way, and love is one of them...
But very often we don't ourselves see any role of the mind in matters of love...it's heart's domain..the land of whims and fancies..the zone where logic has no say.It's rollercoaster of bliss and misery alternating, arbritarily...and those in love seem to enjoy this very thing...
People in love claim that there r no rules, no planning, no definitions and no laws in love...
I dunno..is it really true? practically... No experience:P..but would like to know....
At least a stable relationship cannot be based on just whims, or complete lack of logic...I cannot conceive it this way..but i may be wrong...
A crush maybe blind (ok ok only the eyes workin..er, staring...well, and mouth drooling, but the mind is numb):D...infatuations may also be illogical, impractical, and baseless...
But when you talk of love, I expect it's something else..We might need to consider past, present, and future in love..sanely...We might even sometimes need to "analyze" if we really love the one we "feel" we do, or that maybe it's time to say "goodbye" to a relationship....
There must be some room for logic in love.............

OR MAYBE I AM TOTALLY WRONG....
...even when i write this post....
...why am i trying to xplain anything to do with love with logic...
...maybe it's meant to be that way...
...maybe being so unconnected with logic is wat makes love so beautiful...
...maybe, one should listen to the heart at times...and do mistakes, and learn from them...and laugh and cry, and do mistakes again....
...maybe THAT's life!!


..sigh...still confused............:(

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